Dear Mrs Argyle:
This Community is for other users and we are all volunteers here. I am sorry you are distressed by this and if you want the photos and record removed you will need to send a message to BG Support and be sure to include the URL and complete name the cemetery and of the child on the record along with the reason you want the photo removed. No one here in this group can remove anyone's photos once they have been uploaded to the site; only BG staff can do that.
The link for Support is at the bottom of your Dashboard (BG home page).
Again, so sorry for your loss and for your distress.